Monday, October 7, 2019

14A

1) Tenaciousness is a competency. 
- I think that to develop tenacity, knowing yourself is very important. What I mean by this is, doing things when you are most effective. There are many times when you need to push through but having an understanding and being able to monitor your mood, level of focus, potential places and times to be distracted, and who you need to be surrounded with at what times are key. It's easy for a student to think that studying all day in the library without break is the best way to get stuff done but that is not what the evidence shows. In my first semester at UF, I read "How to Become a Straight A Student" by Cal Newport which really taught me how to schedule my days to work when I am most effective and plan for the inevitable distractions of life. These have helped me manage my hectic "business major" schedule that requires lots of involvement, career prep, and internships. Applying these skills to this course have made it enjoyable and have allowed me to actually focus when engaging with the content and throughout the assignments. 
2) Tenaciousness is also about attitude. 
During the past two months, I thought I was going to have to drop one of my hard classes. The day before the exam I took a practice test and did not do well so I started to panic. Yet, my panic did not last as long as it had in the past when situations like this came up. I realized that it is not the end of the world and even if I did fail, I had many ways to make it up and even be very productive for the rest of the semester if I would have had to drop it. I reminded myself of how special it is for me to be at UF in the first place and that I have seen lots of success in the past and that this one moment would not be the defining moment of my life. In fact, I'm not sure that any moment can define the success of your whole life. I know that great things are respectable because they are hard and that I can get back up immediately once things get bad if I just make the decision to. 
3) Three tips. 
- I would first read "How to Become a Straight A Student" by Cal Newport and "12 Rules for Life" by Jordan Peterson because they both provide honest perpectives on the tasks college students face and the hardship that is living. They have helped me better define my aspirations and goals for what I want out of college and life and how I can achieve those things. 
- I think it's important to challenge yourself to do things that you know would impress you. If you do not have some sort of goals, you'll find yourself lost. Writing down your goals and placing them somewhere will help a lot. Everyone hears it but it really does help me focus and bring me back to reality in rough and distracted times. 
- I think it is important to try and observe yourself and your world from that of a visitor who knows nothing about you. When you really focus on why you do the things you do and try to recognize what you are really getting out of them, you can figure out the flaws that are keeping you from your potential. 
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4 comments:

  1. Hey Alexis,
    I enjoyed reading your post because I realized I am going through similar things that you went through in your last semester. I am that student that feels like I need to be in the library 24 hours straight in order to feel like I got everything, but instead, I should really focus on studying smarter and seeing what study strategies work best for me. Thank you for mentioning the book we should read about that because I am very interested in doing so! I also like how you mentioned knowing yourself is very important, I totally agree!

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  2. Alexis,

    I could relate to your post in such a strong way. I went through something similar to you last spring, but in a different way. I took a very hard course during one of the hardest periods of my life where I had to face several adjustments. During this time, I ended up failing the class I worked so hard in, but I didn't give up and stop there. I am now retaking the course and I am doing really well in it now. If I would have let that one course and that failure dictate my major or my success, then I would not be the tenacious person that I am today. I hope you can use this as some inspiration no much what you face in your courses at UF! I loved your post and the image you included as well.

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  3. Hi Alexis, I found your post to be very insightful. I completely agree with you that studying all day without taking breaks is not the most efficient way to get work done. I used to do this my freshman year and found that I would take much longer than I needed to on assignments. Giving myself time limits during the most productive moments of my day is definitely the way to go. Great post!

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  4. Good evening Alexis, I hope you enjoyed your weekend. I really enjoyed reading your blog, it had some very great details about attitude, success, and perseverance. I really admire your third tip on how people should try to view themselves from an external perspective. When you challenge yourself to take a different look at yourself, you can truly see your strengths and weaknesses, and what you may need to improve on as a person.

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